We separated \, we were apart 5 months. Before we separated she told me she wouldn't promise to be faithful. She wasn't. It didn't take her long.

We are back together not very romantic be we are together.

I avoid talking about the affair to her but I am really hurt.

What questions should I ask to start us healing? I am not curious about the details of the sex but I want to know how she could do this, even though she the whole time had a little glimmer of hope that we would come back together. The OM was her ex-bf from 6 years ago before we married.

What could she possibly tell me to put closure on this chapter?
I really want this to work out.