Hey, [[Upside]]!

I see so many positives in your sitch!! The "waffling" your H is doing may be brutally maddening, but from what I've heard, it's completely normal!

It sounds a little like you are scared about your own loss of feeling.......I don't think that is necessarily a bad thing. You've been though such he** in the past couple years, you must be emotionally exhausted. Plus, you have have done a lot of soul searching and learning what you really need from a relationship, and you aren't completely sure that your H can give it to you! Remember this is a journey, and not just for your H, but you too!

Take each day for the gift it is, and let your destiny reveal itself to you in it's own time.

Hang in there!!

((((()))))


TJ

Me45,H49
D24,S18
M26,T28
Bomb 3/19/08
Sep 6/23/08
EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8
3/2009 H moved in w/OW2
7/2009 Let him go w/Love.
8/2009 Legally Sep'd