Give her much time and she will change her tune. Right now it seems that aliens have abducted her and stuck a probe way up her rear so it engages with her brain. It is up there real good and is going to take a while to work its way back out.
Mine said all the same stuff. She may threaten divorce, but in a lot of situations, they cant pull the trigger and do it. Even after the divorce (I filed) taking a year, she came to her senses and wanted a second chance. It was too late for me though as she had done way too much damage.
Trapt is right - just lay low and dont push her into the arms of another man now.