Holy [censored], Upside! I can see why you posted to my thread! I could have written every word that you just did.
I too feel like I am going crazy at times. XH and I will have these great times together and I want to build on them while he is content to escape back into himself. It almost makes me wonder if he is lying about his enjoyment of his time with me. I mean, if a "date" is as great as he says it is, then why doesn't he schedule another one? It makes me insane.
I understand that it is hard for you to post these "vents" when other posters would kill for time with their H's.....but, don't compare the two. Your sitch is your sitch and this is about how YOU feel in the relationship. If you are unhappy or unsatisfied, so be it. Don't feel guilty over your feelings. It is maddening to have an H who simply will not go away or commit.
You know as well as I do that you need to drop the R talks. I know, you want answers. Me too. But, until you are sure that you can't take this anymore, you will have to suck this one up. Otherwise, you will get your answer, and I guarantee it is one you will not like!
I know you know all of this. Me too. It justs gets to be too much sometimes, doesn't it? I understand, sweetie, and I am sorry you are going thru this.
