"It's hard not to want to read into that, I mean c'mon now! Don't we all want our ex's R's with the OW to fail eventually? Am I bad for saying that?"

No, you're not bad. It would be much easier to deal with a ex's new spouse who was an innocent stranger, I think.

Plus, karma's a beotch........I'd look forward to any situation that forced the WAS to realize that they made a mistake.

"Shouldn't we be fighting if our divorce case is back in court after we've been divorced for 4 years?

Why would he even want to be nice to me?"

Ummm.....what might he be trying to schmooze you out of??????

Ellie