Hi, TL!!

All is quieting down around here.

H was a no show all weekend, claimed he had the flu--stomach and sore throat.

Seems he is doing this more and more--saying he is sick or does not show up or waits until the last minute to say his stomach is bothering him.

Is it my imagination or does it seem like he is drifting further and further from us and yet, asking us for money-from his account (unemployment or asking me to contribute more and more which I cannot--I have mouths to feed, we have gas to put in the car, bills I take care of).

I know I sound selfish but I cannot do all of these things.


The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19