Hey, [[[[[Glam]]]]].

I know it must be very hard to let your S20 go. You've said before what a big support he has been for you through your sitch.

You should be proud of yourself for letting him go with love and strength by telling him you will be just fine. That is a precious gift you have given him!

My C has told me that many times parents, whether consciously or un-consciously, play the guilt card and try to hang on to their kids, either for fear of being alone, or need for being needed. That is a disservice to young adults who deserve to have their own lives.

I have no doubt you will be more than fine! You'll be GREAT (as you always are!!!!) ;\)

Take care!


TJ

Me45,H49
D24,S18
M26,T28
Bomb 3/19/08
Sep 6/23/08
EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8
3/2009 H moved in w/OW2
7/2009 Let him go w/Love.
8/2009 Legally Sep'd