wth?? You think any c is so good that suddenly all lights are going to flash and alarms are going to go off and he'll slap his forehead and say OMG I GET IT!! I'M A FOOL AND I NOW SEE IT ALL SO CLEARLY AND WHAT MUST BE DONE..BYE BYE C, I HAVE TO GO CALL OW AND KICK HER ASS OUT, AND THEN CALL MEL AND TELL HER ALL THE THINGS I'VE SUDDENLY REALIZED"!!???
I would take it as a good sign that he is shutting the heck up right now. He's got some thinking to do! He might not be feeling so hot about choices he has to make...he might not be able to stay on cruise control waiting for the skies to clear and for him to know all the things he has to do AND somehow they have to be easy choices...cuz hard ones are just....so.....hard....to....make... better to stick our heads in the sand and do the absolute minimum to keep you hanging, and whatever else he wants.
So, like I said, realistically, I think this is a good thing. Let him THINK about what he heard today. Let him look around his life and say the real question he has to ask himself which is WTF AM I DOING TO THE PEOPLE I LOVE AND WHEN WILL I FIX THIS?? HOW LONG CAN I DO THIS TO THEM??
Back way off sweetie. If you "hover" waiting for his call and his "decision" and his "realization/choices," etc then he'll take it to mean that you are waiting for HIM to admit HE's wrong...or that he has to change...and his pride is struggling with all of this already. Back off.....GAL....be happy, play with d4, etc.
Got it? Make sense? ( j )
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
