Karen, the Parenting Agreement states, she gets kids every other weekend and one night a week with every other Holiday. This is the agreement if we cannot work out the times ourselves.
If I wanted to be a jerk, this is all she gets (more than she wants right now) - my plan is to let her have the kids whenever she wants. I still haven't decided between letting her have the kids whenever she wants, then I'm subject to her schedule or do I tell her pick 2 weekend in advance so I can make my own plans
I don't know if I should respond to her e-mail and take the high road. this e-mail is littered with land mines. I want to tell her I wouldn't turn back time because of the kids, I want to tell her no one in life is a failure who has friends. I want to tell her I was happy and I'm learning to be happy without her.
E-MAIL SHE SENT ME: I don't talk about it with anyone either. I really have not told anyone except for (best friend) about anything that is going on in my life. I feel like a failure. I don't like to talk about it. I don't see any way around it, however. I hate that this happened. If I could turn back time I would. I just want to do the very best I can do for everyone from this point forward. My time on this planet is growing short and I want to do good with it. I want to be happy and I want to make other people happy. I want my life to count for something. Sincerely,
Thank you for checking in on me. M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08
