Wow, did my face light up when I saw that you'd posted to me!! Thanks. I'm excited about starting to workout again. I did it pre-child and I felt so good. Tried here and there since she came along, but since H is mostly still of the mindset of whatever he wants to do, he just does....it's been hard to find time. This place offers a monitored children's room that D4 can go into while I'm working out. I'd like it to be just MY time, but it helps that I can take her with me if I need.
I've had some very UP days lately. A few down ones too, but I expect those.
Have a great evening!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
Enjoy the cut/color. I just got mine done last week and I feel so much better about myself.
Sounds like things are status quo. Thats not all bad. I would be interested in the alanon website. I can't get to meetings easily with baby and would be nice to have something online.
Enjoy your week!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Sounds like things are status quo. Thats not all bad.
Except that that's never seemed to work for SUE. Works for awhile, and then her husband breaks her heart again. I really don't see anything changing until she puts him in the crucible and forces him to deal with his issues.
Sounds like things are status quo. Thats not all bad.
Except that that's never seemed to work for SUE. Works for awhile, and then her husband breaks her heart again. I really don't see anything changing until she puts him in the crucible and forces him to deal with his issues.
Puppy
True.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
My parents are in town. They just picked up D4 from daycare, so she's super excited. Not a lot planned for the weekend. I have a fitness assessment at my new health club tomorrow. Then, off to get my hair cut & colored. I can't wait! I'm sure we'll do dinner with my parents tomorrow night. D4 wants my mom to make a cake with her for me. She's so sweet.
Life's been busy. I noticed lwb mentioned registering her youngest for kindergarten. We just got our paperwork in for D4 too. We register on March 5th. I also booked D4's 5th birthday party. She's getting excited. That, however, isn't until the end of March. Work has been busy too. One boss is in Vegas for the weekend (I'm jealous), but I have a lot of other things going on.
H's mood has been in the toilet. He's extremely worried about his job. He'd been opening up to me, but got really quiet. I asked and he said that if he doesn't meet his goal in Feb. that he will be out of a job. He is going to start working with someone to professionaly write his resume and I encouraged him to visit Linkedin and join the group from our church. I joined and saw a lot of people in there. I told him that he could find some good connections there. I also encouraged him to join a group at church that meets on Tuesday mornings. The woman that runs it does a different subject each week on job searching, resumes...etc. Now it's his job to get moving on it.
Well, have a great weekend everyone!
Take care-
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
How does the hair look? I bet it gives you such a lift.
This economy stinks. Not that marriages and relationships need job/money issues. I really hope your H gets plugged into church. There are alot of men that can really come along side your H and keep him on the right path.
Any sightings of OW?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
