I have been thinking about what H said last night. He has supposedly switched his mind set from "can't live with you/can't live without you" to "I want to be with you so now I am trying to find a way for that to happen". I still don't know how he thinks adding in a new home renovation and split custody of the kids is going to allow him to do that....
It isn't that I want him to move back home yet. Because there is so much that would need to be figured out if we really tried again. I can't get back with him unless/until I know it is for the right reasons and will 'stick' this time....I just think it is a little presumptive on his part that if we work things out I will just move into his house instead of the other way around. But his p.o.v. is that his house will be totally remodeled and updated (and he is GREAT at that by the way!), while mine will still have its 1980s cabinets, counters, light fixtures, etc. Plus his house is much larger, with 3 beds upstairs instead of 2 and a larger basement.
I haven't contacted him at all today. Last night when he left he said he was coming over tonight (it is his night on the calendar)so I will just see what he decides to do with himself.
