Just a question in return. WDID posted this question on H4H's thread and I'm going to ask it here.
If she wants to divorce you, why isn't she?
My question is this: Why does my H still stay in constant contact with me if all he wants is to be gone?
I asked my C a version of that same question: Why, if H doesn't want to hear the truth, does he continue to call me?
She said she wondered the same thing...
I read that question earlier this evening and it got me thinking. My feelings about my earlier post haven't changed, but this question just kept popping back up to me. So I'm asking you all for your insight.
Because often, we don't KNOW what we want. It's like "survey bias" -- sometimes you answer with what you think you're SUPPOSED to say, but then there's what you REALLY think.
I think humans are mostly flawed, conflicted beings. Fold in an affair, or a MLC, or some other crisis, and you can multiply the conflict 10x.
