Hi yoyo, just posted on your sitch. I totally agree having the kids at my house I can observe them and what they are up to.
Found out from D28 that H is now on AD. I am glad but if he continues to drink it will be bad for his health. Of course the benefit of taking the AD he is on is that it could cause reduced libido! lol OW will HATE that.
Do you worry about when your kids will be out of the house and being alone? It is such a fear of mine, especially living so far from my family. This A started in june 07,with H moving out in Oct, with no end in site right now. I keep praying all day for God to soften his heart. Having no contact right now is better for me so I can preserve my love for him. I pray at some point he misses me. By removing myself from their drama, what else can they talk about and take away more of their fantasy being together and everything being perfect.
We will keep praying for each other.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
