Yoyo, I know you must be getting tired of waiting. He needs to be pushed onto your side of the fence. In Divorce Remedy it talks about doing a 180 and going dark but you have to be prepared to follow through. I think as long as H knows he can have you, OW, OW as secretary -- it could go on and on and on and on with no end in site.
After awhile of this waiting it can become detrimental to yourself and you might find yourself starting to hate H. You want to preserve the love you still have for him and have him realize what he might be losing.
I am praying for you.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
