I have tried, I have taken several long weekend trips with friends. I end up spending way too much time wondering what she is doing and more importantly, who she is with. I have no proof that their is someone else and she says their is not but I just have that feeling. Maybe it's just fear of the fact that it would be a whole new level of pain to have to deal with. She is so bitter, she blames all of the pain and confusion she is dealing with on our relationship, mostly me. Although it all gets directed at me.
SO-LOST,
Sorry I didn't catch this sooner. One thing to keep in mind is that all MLC'ers lie. Bottom line. So to start, assume that all of your suspicions are real. Assuming that they are, there is only one question that you need to answer......Do you love your spouse enough to forgive her? Can you really love her through this. If that answer is yes, then do the things that you can control, and that means you. There are no excuses if YOU still suck at the end of this......
