I'm glad to hear that you arent disappointed Cinders. This board helped to keep me sane for months following my Ws departure. I wasnt trying to abandon it. The D was something I never dreamt would really happen.

But life goes on. Unfortunately, my XW doesnt seem to be moving toward any toward reconciliation for any time in the near future.

Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God