It seems to be working! Sometimes....

[Silent Chrleader]

You guys are soooooo chasing your tails!!!

I am working so I can't go into detail now, but I really do think that things may not be as bad as they seem and you need to get back in touch with the DB "basics".

Please try to take a deep breath and just stop for bit. Remember that you and your H got back together very quickly in the greater scheme of things, and your H hasn't done C really, so it's easy to see why he is struggling with his feelings. He holds them in, and when he lets them out, you are devastated!

He's not wrong for his feelings or seeming lack thereof, and you are not wrong in being hurt! But neither does this mean that your M is "doomed". Far from it IMHO!!

I'll try to call you tonight......and/or hopefully we can get together tomorrow and really talk.....

Hang in there!!!!!

[[[[[[[[[[BIG HUGS]]]]]]]]]]