Sounds like the rinse and repeat cycle is back on. You go dim, he brightens up. So, keep doing what's working. How's your little girl?
I'd like your take if you have a minute to mosey over to my post.
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too