It seems to be working! Sometimes....

[sandycay]

Here's his reply:

I'm not sure where all of this is coming from...really I'm not. It
seems to me that we feed on each others unhappiness as much as each
others happiness. I come here and I am quite frankly....extremely
bored. I have one purpose....make money...so really....I'm not trying
to be a jerk, but excuse me if I get a little bored of sitting on a bed
flipping channels for days at a time. I mean really...it's been a week,
in the prison of a bedroom so to speak. Please gimmie a break with that
if I don't really have anything to talk about or get excited about. So
I don't have much to say....I start it...with that...I'll accept
that....then you give me a little 'tude and it's like....please...could
you just gimmie a break.? But you don't. You let it slip further and
then eventually I get tired of the whole thing and start to shut down.
I ask you about your day...what's going on....you're only interested in
my day...that's nice, except my day sucks...every day. So I don't want
to bitch about it.

That's it. I'm sorry if I'm not making a big enough deal about it. Or
maybe I'm just to stupid and missing the whole thing.

Love,
H

I sent this back to quickly because I was mad:
Yes, You missed most of the letter and ignored some very important items
that you don't want to address.. I guess. This isn't just about your 'tude
while your in Knoxville. Please re read my email and not with a 'tude.

You state your days suck... and your bored and have nothing to talk about it
but you've been in the same situation and had plenty to talk about ...again
just not with me.... Your bored with me. There is no tude just truths.

As far as our happiness feeding off each other I call BS. I have been
happy time and time again only to have it dashed by YOUR "lingering
feelings". I am not sure how you expect me to keep a happy face over that
time and time again. If anyone should be shutting down right now it should
be me. I am starting to that's what the email was about. I am sure your
pissed because that seems to be your only emotion you are capable of showing
me. I guess that helps make it easier to not like me. Just like before.
End of email


Now, am I crazy for thinking that he should have addressed some of the things in my earlier email. They were pretty powerful statements. Talked to him last night and this morning and he said nothing and has written nothing. Now it's like a big elephant in the room or is what I wrote the truth? Seems like if it wasn't.... wouldn't he say that?