Thank you, [[[[[Lola & Glam]]]]].

I know that you are both spot on in your advice.

I am doing OK mostly, but I had some tough moments during our time up at the dream house.

I have a feeling this month is going to be full of ups and downs because the 19th is our 26th anniversary. I'm sure that H won't even mention it, and I am keeping my expectations at zero......in fact, I was thinking yesterday about what I would/should do if he did mention it or asked if I wanted to do something that night. I'm thinking it might be better to politely decline (which would be a real 180 for me)......??


TJ

Me45,H49
D24,S18
M26,T28
Bomb 3/19/08
Sep 6/23/08
EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8
3/2009 H moved in w/OW2
7/2009 Let him go w/Love.
8/2009 Legally Sep'd