Exposing at EA

[Still Waters]

What's everybody's beliefs on exposing affairs to your spouse's family? If busting up an affair is the goal, it seems like a good idea. But it also seems to go against DBing.

And if it's an EA, or if you only have proof of an EA, then is it even worth it to expose to family? It seems that most people don't understand how harmful EAs are, except for people like us who are going through or have gone through a separation/divorce.