Ali, yesterday I mentioned her request for my "fantasy day" and said I'd like to do something Wednesday. It is my birthday Wed and since it is W's day off I suggested that we spend the day together. Maybe start by going and doing something like a walk in the park followed by a quick lunch and coffee. Then come home and... uh... well I haven't come up with that part yet. But I did let her know it would be something sensual.
She did seem open to the idea so I'll come up with something.
All along I have thought part of our troubles have to do the when of our ML. When we ended up only ML late on Sunday night, it was always when we were tired. That's how we ened up in that "hurry up and get this over with so we can go to sleep" mode. If we could just set aside time, make ML important and special again it will make a big difference for us.
