Thank you, all. It is frustrating, isn't it? And you're exactly right, Andabelle, that he has not chance of restoring his integrity until he's faced with some consequences. And he does seriously need to grow up.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012