An extremely bad move, RJ. I know that you feel justified in what you did: it was Tit for Tat -- I won't do my part if you don't do yours behavior, but THIS SORT OF BEHAVIOR WILL NEVER FIX YOUR MARRIAGE
I agree 100%
My H does this... he is still saying when you change Ali I will. *SIGH*
It leaves me feeling like I am withering on the vine.
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. Here is what you missed: one the most important ways in which a woman feels truly loved is when they feel supported, cared for, and cherished by their man, and without a connection to her "putting out" later on for your having done housework during the day
Bingo~
I have said this once if not a million times.
I want to feel important to you outside the bedroom. ( Tip * there is a lot more to me that what is in between my legs.*)
When Men dont get this ? It makes it seem like all you care about is getting off.
~Ali
Edit to add..
H: Well honey what do you mean You wont have sex with me? I did x, y or z. W : Oh so you did them cause you want something not cause you care? She ends up hurt......
When you do things to show you love her you have to do it w/o expectation.
Would you enjoy the sex if you know when she did it ? It was only to get you to do x , y or z? ?
