W - Give me an example of what a perfect day with me would be. Pretend that I had a sex drive like yours H. H - I don't know what to say, can I write an essay and give it to you? (This really took me by surprise, I really didn't know what to say. I think it was fear that if I said something that wouldn't be something she would ever do, it would just turn her off.)
Hmm? This is hard , BUT~ My H recently ahd asked me to give him what I call Fantasy Scenarios. For your Wife?
The perfect day.
Dont get tense and dont worry about will this work or offend . What worked for me?
I got into a relaxed state of mind. I put Music on and then just closed my eyes and laid in our bed. * promise it doesnt get X rated you can keep reading*
I then picture in my mind what I would love to do to him, and also what would give me pleasure. I ended up with a beautiful scenario and it was natural something do able and luxurious for us both.
The first "FS" came to me and then 3 more very easily. I then chose the one that would leave us both happy. Guess what? He asked me about the other 3.. He also chose the one I chose as most mutually gratifying. I wont tell you what it is , get your mind relaxed and think of yourself and you will know. I think you give your wants up to much and you think to hard. ( BTDT~) Let it come to you,, dont force it.
Let me know how it goes. I was going to tell you mine but this place is G rated.~ And here I thought I was the girl with the coke glasses on!~! Yeah right.... Love, Ali
