"Shortcoming" I meant him giving up, and taking the closest exit out of our M...

Selfish? Dont you see I was trying to limit myself in so many ways to accomodate his denial to follow? I lowered myself so that he could reach me? I am not perfect, I am not special, but I may still be scary to him because of the way he is, not the way I am...

Hostile? I am not hostile. I am patient lately, thinking before I speak, thinking of ways to act in a positive way for our M.

And I didnt miss it. One year is gone already, thank God!!!
K


Me&H:42
S11&D10
Bomb 5/2007-Sep 11/2007
Reconc.November 2009