Trying to let go........with love!

[glamgirl]

SC Lola's post is spot on. As much as it feels now that your h is moving further away and you are not even a blip on the radar, it's what must happen.

When they are out there it gives them time to think, to process their thoughts, without interference or distractions from you.

Try not to think too much into what your h is doing, because you can't stop him anyway.

My h is closer than he has ever been. Gee he even apologized for getting angry with me yesterday. That was huge. Our R wasn't like this in the beginning.

It was shattered and broken. We are NOT there yet nor are we healed, but the point is I walked your shoes and over time as my h has been healing it has brought us closer together not further away.

It takes letting go of your h. That is the most difficult. You need to do that first, before you could ever reconcile.