Wife left tonight

[ppenton]

Well, she finally told the kids and they of course reacted as you'd expect. I told them I'll be there for them and they told me not to worry as they said its not my fault. She has been avoiding her friends and family and I have been telling them about the A.

I am a little confuse as some posts suggest I act OK and others say I shouldn't???

Anyway, the cats out of the bag and I've been telling people which you are right is embarrassing her but its making her (her words) more determined to make this work with OM to prove everyone wrong. So, right now I need to work on myself. She is being very selfish and throwing away a great M. I asked her what her plans are with OM, when will she finish packing, etc...she doesn't really have a plan except that she is so in love. We go to MC tomorrow and I want to work on terms of this separation which she has been avoiding as I think she is trying to avoid reality.