Thanks everyone,

Well Sara I did give W the pen last night. I actually got a little teary telling her how proud I was that she never gave up.
I told her the pen was from son and me.

She did thank me for it. (I was hoping for a least a hug) \:\(


But I did get some pleasure from watching her try it out checking out the different features. I really do think she liked it. allot of the presents I have given her in the past she just put down or gave it to our son.

You know Yoyo and OT, I have watched parts of the movie on line. I get emotional every time I do. And Dam% you OT. Why am I so transparent to you? I guess I was kind of hoping a light would come on in W's head watching the movie.
So you are right I will rent it and watch it myself.
AND I do think you are right (again) ot about "letting go" of the past at this time. I have seen a change in W this last week.
I almost left a note for her this morning wishing her luck on her first day at work but decided not to because of my "breathing down her neck and stopped looking for every possible opportunity to trigger something that will "Shake her up" and "make her see the light."

So the only thing that I want to do in regards to the last R is get her out of son's room this weekend. I will not bring it up unless I see no activates in this direction by Saturday.
I agree OT I think that if I can set my mind to a "fresh start" mode, if I want to stay in this relationship this is the best way to go about it.
Need to get to work so have a great day everyone

Doc


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know