I know that's the right thing to do, not to dwell or snoop but it's SOOOOOOOO hard not to. Your survival instincts kick in and you try and prepare yourself for the pain you might be about to receive. I really don't snoop at all but I do get upset when she only tells me bits & pieces of where she is going and what she is doing, especially when she gets all fixed and dressed up in her teenager clothes and takes off without her wedding ring on. This weekend was really bad, except to argue, we hardly spoke at all. I alomst don't want to let my kids go with their friends just so I don't have to sit in silience with her. It makes you feel like you are going out of your mind.
