Thanks R - Chin up to you too...and yes we'll make it through one way or another!

I was thinking about you and your sitch...take care that you don't let W walk all over you. I say this b/c I made that mistake w/my H for about 6 months and I ended up w/depression. I know the idea "let the WS do their own thing and you GAL" is great in theory, but sometimes it can be negative if you don't keep on top of it. Then you end up like me on anti-depressants. You seem very strong for someone in the midst of this nightmare...keep it up and take care of YOU!
-J