I think it sounds like your H is at least willing to sit down and talk with you about the breakdown. That sounds good and like the two of you communicated well Tuesday night.
I'm with Optimist on the depression but I'm thinking you have said before that he won't see anyone about going on medication.
I think it sounds like you made the right decision on your parents.
Mid-October still gives him time to change his mind.
Plan the most fun trips you can for you and the kids, definitely the convertible and maybe he will join you, if not it will be a memorable time for you and the kids.
Take care and hope you have a great weekend.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
