the only thing I DONT understand snodderly is this. You all say that he wants a relationship without the respbonility, but one girl he was seeing had 2 kids. I feel like he really liked her and tried really hard to impress. He even bought the cologne I think she suggested to him. He did other things she asked him to. She told me most of this after they stopped seeing each other. (She stopped the relationship).He tried several times to get her back, but she wouldnt. She said he got to serious. Talked about taking kids to lake and so forth. If he didnt want responbility why would he talk about doing things with her kids? That is more responbility than he ever had. We did have some financial issues. The new woman on the other hand did not. She said though my xh paid for everything and I believe her, because 20 years ago, we woed me with MONEY the same way. Whats your take on this? Isn't this responbility?
