H was showing them some of his latest pictures from hunting on his phone when he got an incoming phone call from the OW, it was on silent. I saw it. as well as DD and her friend. I started to say something to him, but decided against it.
I looked at it this way, we had a nice evening with our friends and he was at my house hanging out with us. I decided I would let OW wonder what he was up to. He told me Friday night that he wasn't seeing her anymore. Maybe she is the one that is trying to hold on. I'll let her be the one that starts to look needy. I'm sure if she called at that time, she had called earlier in the night. I'm sure she was wondering where he was. She lives a few blocks from him, I'm sure she went by his house too.
Yoyo, I know that was hard to do, but IMHO it was exactly the RIGHT thing to do. I no longer say anything either. Let her be the one to wonder and flip out. Sometimes I feel like I'll chew my tongue off, but in the end its better to say nothing, than blow up and create drama.
I was rooting for AZ too.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
