Hi Everyone, Hope you all enjoyed the Super Bowl. I was really rooting for the Cardinals. I'm a sucker for the underdogs.
I considered everyone's responses. Maybe you all had a point that the bad mood came from the kids being here. I didn't help matters. You all know me well enough to know that I react a little too strongly sometimes.
I decided I was going to let him make the next move. H called me today to see if I had everything I needed to take to the Super Bowl party we were invited to. I told him yes. He said he would be over about 4:00 to get me. I wasn't sure if he was still going, but I knew I was, no matter what. He got here early, I wasn't completely ready yet. He followed me around like a puppy while I was trying to get finished getting ready and preparing the dish I was taking.
The Super Bowl party was very nice, way too much good food. It was us and four other couples that we are friends with. I think it's always good when we go around our friends and he gets to see what he would be missing. The friends would never accept OW. H always made sure to check with me when he got a drink to see if I needed one. I gave him plenty of space at the party. It was always him coming up to me.
When we got back to my house some of DD's friends were still over from watching the game. H was showing them some of his latest pictures from hunting on his phone when he got an incoming phone call from the OW, it was on silent. I saw it. as well as DD and her friend. I started to say something to him, but decided against it.
I looked at it this way, we had a nice evening with our friends and he was at my house hanging out with us. I decided I would let OW wonder what he was up to. He told me Friday night that he wasn't seeing her anymore. Maybe she is the one that is trying to hold on. I'll let her be the one that starts to look needy. I'm sure if she called at that time, she had called earlier in the night. I'm sure she was wondering where he was. She lives a few blocks from him, I'm sure she went by his house too.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon