I think that is a good stance that z posted. I have told my mom and dad that there are some problems that we are trying to work through, but never talk negative to them about h or share details. I don't want them to be negative if he comes back to this relationship.
He didn't tell his family for a long time but when he moved in with his sister they all know now. I think it will be hard for me to face them again if we get back together.
I do think the less people that know about it the better, so less people to deal with when the marriage is back on firm footing.
I like what Sue posted about focussing on the good!
I think you are doing a great job of keeping your emotions in check and supporting your h's need to find himself here.
{{{{Jackie}}}}}}
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
