Tied to the Whipping Post

[Punktmann]

For the Mods.

I / we understand legal liability / personal responsibility.

For the sake of all of us who bounce between here and hell, please grow a spine.

Put a disclaimer in your terms of use to relieve you of liability. I'm sure that you can find a way to relieve yourselves of responsibility. We are big people here, we can decide which comm's are unacceptable.

A 5 line primer/instructions would educate posters on how to avoid their eX's finding them.

Even as secure as this site is, it's not the same as a "group."

Allowing us to contact and interact with the ones we choose here, IS like a group, only better, b/c we can choose those people who are like us.


****WE**** NEED THE CAPABILITY TO DISCOURSE WITH EACH OTHER.

Not you deciding, not your legal advisers,

****WE**** need this.

Your site is awesome. But YOU are dropping the ball.

While I understand that this is YOUR site, and I believe that it should go by YOUR rules, I also think that if you view us as customers, you should be responsive to our desires as customers.

Perhaps there is a trend towards looking at the old-timers as non-important customers since we are beyond the critical cusp one way or the other.

That is a grave mistake, the old timers here are the ones who really understand D-Bing, and who can suggest to the newcomers how to apply it in familiar situations.

Having gone through this difficulty earlier when emails were still allowable, I can tell you from experience that it made a HUGE difference to be able to privately communicate with people who could identify with my situation.

PLEASE, investigate this by asking old timers, and ESPECIALLY the younger people who still have contact with the old timers....

I really believe that you care about the people here more than as just a money making scheme.

I have no doubt that you will find a way to allow email or PM type contacts in OUR interests as well as yours if you examine the situation.

Thank you.


Punkt.