NC went ok for a bit. I did what Puppy said and got the insurance going on my own. I e-mailed H and told him and said that we have to wait to be approved and I will let him know when that happens and how much it will cost him.
He called. I did not answer. He called again. I did not answer. He left a message saying that I must be out having a good time with OM. I left it alone and did not call back.
He e-mailed me wanting to know why I did the insurance when HE was going to get it handled. I did e-mail back and tell him that I got it handled and I will let him know the specifics when I know them.
Saturday he called a couple times and again left a message saying I MUST be having a great time cause I won't even answer his calls or call him back. (remember I told him NOT to call my phone).
Then this morning he calls again. I almost answered the phone but I didn't do it. That is the hardest thing to do.
Have to add real quick that my mom is going to paint her house and a few months back she asked my H if he would let her know how much paint she would need. He still does things for my mom whenever she needs him to. But he wanted to wait on the weather to warm up a bit since she can't paint yet anyway......SO
Since I did not answer his call he shows up at my moms today. (I live with my mom until taxes are done and I can get me and D7 into a place of our own).
He comes up and says he is going to measure the house to see how much paint my mom needs. I told him to do whatever he felt he needed to do and he asked me to come and help him.
D7 ran out and was all excited that he was here. We didn't talk much at first. After a bit he asked me what I did this weekend. I told him a couple things that me and D7 had done and he asked if I had hung out with "OM". I said "no I don't take D7 around anyone that I might decide to go out with." That was the end of that.
Then he starts telling me about things he had done around the house this weekend and just idle chit chat.
Then he tries to jump back to talking about "OM" and brings up that I will probably get flowers and all this other stuff from OM at Valentines Day. I just said "who knows".
He makes the comment that I kicked him to the curb (I am tired of hearing this now) and I said "no YOU kicked ME to the curb when you started with OW". He said "we are just phone friends"....I could have slapped him at that moment. WTH?????
Then he again says that I kicked him to the curb cause I am the one that took the money and went and filed for D.
At that point my mom walked out to see what he had figured out and we stood there all talking for a few and then H had to go so he could do a job for a buddy of his.
So the NC worked on my end....but H couldn't handle it I guess.
