H called tonight (you can read what happened on my thread) - I stayed calm, told the truth nicely, listened, and established some goals. No arguing. I didn't give in to going back to things as usual - in fact, I did the 180 - I didn't end things, I didn't revert back. I wanted so badly to do one or the other - but I had been anticipating this call since his accident. He didn't get what he expected, but he didn't reject it either. Progress?
