Hi (me again) I don't understand what you mean by 'intensity'? Intensity in a bad way or a good way?
I'm trying to write a non-threatening, short letter that says I want more than talking on the phone every 2-3 weeks or a visit at the store every once in awhile. I don't want a buddy. I want an intimate relationship with the man that I love. I want him to see that having a LOVING relationship with me does not mean that he has to give up his sense of self and his identity. I want to do the things with him that all his 'friends' are doing with him--shows, vacations, dinner.
Does he really believe that we have nothing in common?
What I am trying to show him that I am flexible! I am trying to show him that I respect his life with his friends. I am trying to say that he doesn't have to give up his life in order to have a loving, hopefully intimate, relationship with me!!!
I AM HOLDING ON TO A THREAD AT THIS POINT, LAURIE. THERE HAS TO BE SOMETHING THAT I CAN DO TO JUMP START THIS RELATIONSHIP TOWARD INTIMACY ONCE AGAIN!!! DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
