When I was an almost WAW and my H would say it, I knew he was just trying to get me to say it back to him. I wouldn't and then he would be upset. WAW's are very smart in knowing their H's and what and why they are doing all of that. So, be careful b/c she doesn't want to hear it now. She will resent it.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
