Sunshine- I'm so sorry your H is going through this and has now changed your life so drastically by taking up with young women who I'm sure aren't half as good as you are. I can't believe how fast you got divorced. Wow, it should not be able to happen that quickly. Something is truly wrong with our society...well that's for another day. The lying is going to bite him in so many ways along with all of the other BS he is doing. I'm just sorry you find yourself here. Stay strong and work on making yourself happy. I know it's hard to do sometimes, but if you force yourself to focus on you, it will become natural and fun! Remember this is about him and NOT about you. Take care. -J