R - I'm at a point now where I can sometimes laugh out loud about MLC, and I must admit the following from you just cracked me up "(I did get a Thanks the other day for doing some wash)". I know it's really not funny, but moments like that have been going on for so long in my house I now laugh about it. Pathetic, but honest.
I agree 100% w/this also..."I can't understand how we can go from a "loving spouse" to someone who doesn't deserve their affection... Best of Luck, No, Best of "Life" to you. I'm tired of Luck". Yep me too...I'm just fed up. I'm afraid of actually getting to a point of not caring at all b/c then it will be completely over for me and I'll become the "walk away spouse". I don't want that for my sons, they deserve to have two parents together, but shouldn't those parents be happy together? Eeek I want this to be over one way or another...and for those of you reading...I'm NOT patient, and yes I know patience is a virtue, blah blah blah, I'm 3 years into MLC, that's pretty patient from my perspective! Enough already -J