I thought your W agreed to you having full custody. Did she change her mind?

NOthing wrong with showing her the feelings you have about all of this. You have been treading lightly until the divorce paperwork.

Had the same sermon. Our priest talked about loyalties and put the emphasis on the fact that we have divided loyalties, etc. , but that if our loyalties are getting in the way of living with God, then maybe those loyalties need changing.