Welcome to limboland...btdt...all of us, usually. So, buckle up and get ready for the emotional ride you're taking. It will take longer than you realize but that's that. You know it's worth it, so be strong and show her you care and are willing to work things out. Great news about the IC you are seeing.
But remember there is so much hope in your sitch, b/c you know you do love your w and she does love you.
(( j ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016