Hi Jackie,

Just catching up with your thread. I vote go and have a ball and leave the door open for H to join you if he would enjoy that sort of thing!

I have always wanted to go for a ride in a convertible, I think that sounds real cool.

Reading your goal sort of hit me upside the head. That is what I have not done for David.

I drove him away with my meltdowns and then the anger over OW. I think I may be seeing some tiny baby steps. Got to keep those emotions under lock and key this time around.

I think you sound like you are doing a great job here, controlling the anger and making your home a safe, soft place for him to be.

{{{{Jackie}}}}

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"