W brought the D paperwork by on Saturday when she picked up the kids (noon), I didn't get full custody, and I cannot fight her on this, I wouldn't win !!!! I don't have to pay maintenance, child support or anything else, I get the house, van, truck, kids will live with me, she gets standard 2 weeks a month, etc (if she wants the kids) and she gets almost all my 401K.
I was getting mad talking about this stuff, W seemed fine with it all, glad to get it over. I told her I would look over the paperwork, she kept talking and talking, I just ignored her which set her off, again I told her I would look over the paperwork. She left in a huff
She called me later that night and we talked for a long time, I told her that the paperwork looked fine, but I needed to take it to my L to review. Before she called, I sent her an e-mail telling her the same, and explained I don't like talking about the D, that it the worse thing that has ever happened to me.
She took the kids to church today, first time she has been in church since this summer. I was wondering what the sermon would be today (anything relating to marriage, etc)
The second reading was Corinthians 7:32-35
Brothers and sisters: I should like you to be free of anxieties. An unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord. But a married man is anxious about the things of the world, how he may please his wife, and he is divided.
An unmarried woman or a virgin is anxious about the things of the Lord,so that she may be holy in both body and spirit. A married woman, on the other hand, is anxious about the things of the world, how she may please her husband. I am telling you this for your own benefit, not to impose a restraint upon you, but for the sake of propriety and adherence to the Lord without distraction.
Thank you for checking in on me.
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08
