Jackie - here's a question: Does H LIKE disneyworld or not? My H hates theme parks, so it would be crazy to have him go with - everything just annoys him. On the other hand - if this is an activity he normally would have enjoyed - studies on dating and falling "in love" show that the ideal date to have someone fall in love with you involves an adrenaline rush - like a rollercoaster or scary movie. So if your H DOES like theme parks - see if you can get him to go, get a sitter for the kids one evening and go to the park with just the two of you.