CL...just a quick thought here: have you and W ever discussed the nuanced differences between sex and intimacy? I'm a little stunned that she figures it's all your deal and expects you to figure it out in IC. It would seem that if she wants more intimacy, it is in her best interest to be participating in a well-rounded approach to improving the R and making efforts to be more supportive. That said, maybe she just wants sex and thinks it's as simple as a little pill here and there. Catch 22.
It bugs me a bit that she expects you to be perfection personified, but she's allowed to be bitchy and flawed. That said, I do understand completely where you're coming from and think you're doing an amazing job as always. Keep up the good work.
