Originally Posted By: karen43
I think you are focusing too much on your W and MIL, and not on you and your boys. Let your L take care of the legal stuff, and if she's not then get another L! Let God take care of your other worries.


Thanks, Karen, you're absolutely right. I know better than to let W get me down like this. And I know to give this all over the the Lord and to turn my focus onto my S's. But every now and then I still get distracted by the senseless drama... Even though I think I am getting better it manages to sneak up on me.

Remembering to just be thankful is always going to be a struggle for me, being the natural pessimist that I am, and so I truly appreciate the reminder.

Thanks.


Me: 49
WAW: 47
S11, S7
Years Married/Together: 17/18
Bomb: 6/15/07
Separation: 7/6/07
D: 4/3/09

Real love is a decision.
Marriage is a commitment.